I do feel still illegal migration is like breaking into someone's home. It's a nation and like Ronald Reagan said "A nation without borders is not a nation". To me also, we have absolutely no idea what these illegals are criminal wise. That's why so many of them getting deported have previous criminal convictions. On that topic, I'm also someone who tries my best to be a law abiding citizen. Even still, your brother is his own person, he is free to dislike people if he wants to. Me and him

but not all of us have an "easy life" like you may think. Some of us were dealt bad hands in life or with the economy, we can't move out just yet. There are certain hardworking people with mental and physical disabilities that work hard, but due to certain circumstances, they can't live on their own. Back on the topic of illegal immigration, a traumatic experience also made me have an illegal immigration stance. But if you want me to respect your opinion, I request you respect mine as well.

And some in the group have 2 jobs now, but factoring in the economy, lucky, etc, some of us can't afford to move out. As for me, I have a disabled mother from a stroke who can't even drive on her own so I sometimes have to take her places such as physical therapy. And I will admit while I am lazy, I can be a hard worker when I apply myself, but admittedly, I've struggled with low self esteem and sometimes have a mental block. But I have been told I work hard when I apply myself.

people working to become citizens. It did irk me a bit when you said illegals work harder than your brother when he works 70 hours a week (at least 10 hours per day if you put into account, not many can do that). As for living in a horrible life, that's also partly the government's fault. As for us, have you've considered walking a mile in our shoes? Some of us have mental disabilities that may effect us living independently. I've known some people who are struggling with 2 separate incomes.

I will admit the drama was uncalled for, but at least will thank you for agreeing to stop drama. I will admit I will defend my stance as well. I personally do see illegal migration similar to breaking into someone's home and then demanding they be part of the family. Almost anyone wouldn't like that and not that long ago, being anti illegal was both a Democrat and Republican issue (Obama even spoke out against it at one point) however, I have absolutely no problem with legal immigration or

@PlayfulCandy I'll stop with the malice and do as you suggest.

I spoke to them, we were able to sort things out with a civil discussion. You can check the comments on my page to see how it went. If you have further things to discuss, you can do it respectfully on their pages.

@iceninekillsfan69 Yup, being a good person is more important than being successful.

@PlayfulCandy very good points! Those who are unsuccessful can be good people while successful people can be antagonistic themselves

I'm no longer big on bashing people for being unsuccessful. While success usually requires diligence, there's also an element of luck. Luck is a gift from God, which is out of our control. Even laziness can be compensated with enough kindness, humbleness, and wholesomeness. Your points about arrogance and pettiness are valid, but hold off on the malice and hear things out. Some of them seem open to discussion, so let me talk to them.